Whether it’s winter, pandemic, 2020 endings or new year beginnings, you might need a bit of support and you absolutely deserve it. This cosy hub was built with queer, trans, people of colour youth in mind. Made with love and care. So find what you need, take what you want and look after yourself.
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I need help right now.
I’m thinking about suicide, or I know someone who is – read this via Grassroots
I’m hurting myself or plan to – a safer self-harm resource via QueerCare
Download this now: ‘Stay Alive’ a free suicide prevention app for the UK by Grassroots
NHS 111 Service
You can call 111 when you need medical help fast but it is not a 999 emergency. NHS 111 is available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year and also online.
Call 111 – free from landlines and mobile phones or use the form online.
In an emergency please call 999 or go to your nearest Accident and Emergency Hospital.
If you want to talk to someone on the phone or text, there is someone who wants to listen. Get in touch with any of the helpline services below:
Maytree – Helpline
If you are feeling suicidal they offer confidential advice with email and telephone support between 8am and 8pm.
Call 020 7263 7070.
Samaritans – Helpline
They offer emotional support and befriending in complete confidence at any time of day or night.
Call 116 123 for the free national helpline.
Papyrus – Helpline
Prevention of young suicide, Mon-Fri: 10am-10pm, weekends: 2pm-10pm & bank holidays: 2pm-5pm
Call 0800 068 41 41 or text 07786 209697 or e-mail pat@papyrus-uk.org
Childline – Helpline
A free service for children and young people up to the age of 19 where you can speak to a counsellor at any time of day or night, and via online chat and e-mail services
Call 0800 11 11
Saneline – Helpline
Offers and provides information and emotional support to those experiencing mental health difficulties, their families and carers, Monday to Friday 12pm-11pm, Weekends 12pm-6pm
Call 0845 7678 000
Switchboard – LGBT+ Helpline
Available 10am-11pm every day and for online chat and e-mail service
Call 0300 330 0630
Shelter – Urgent Housing Advice Helpline
Available every day of the year. 8am-8pm on weekdays. 9am-5pm on weekends. Non-urgent web chat also available.
Call 0808 800 4444
I'm fine I think... (okay, yeah I'm struggling.)
Download this now: ‘Stay Alive’ a free suicide prevention app for the UK by Grassroots
An interactive mental health checkpoint – carrd by faiiwy
LGBT+ guide to self-isolation by House of Pride
The Right Lube – a trans hangout/discord every Sunday
GALOP – services for hate crime, domestic abuse, sexual violence plus trans advocacy
UK LGBTQIA+ mental health resources, guidance, counselling and groups nationwide (Google Doc)
Gender dysphoria first aid / Gender euphoria kit
20 Small Things To Do When Gender Dysphoria Gets You Down by Buzzfeed
25 Things I Do To Make My Body Dysphoria Feel Smaller and Quieter by Autostraddle
5 ways to manage gender dysphoria – by Transformers, Allsorts Young People [pdf]
Laverne Cox explains #TransIsBeautiful and her relationship with her body
Alok Vaid-Menon on Learning to Love Who They Are
10 reasons to envy trans people (Gender Euphoria!) by Trans Magazine
30 Strikingly Beautiful Gender Non-Conforming/Gender Non-Binary Selfies
19 trans and gender non-conforming beauty influencers redefining beauty standards
I want to look after myself.
I want to relax.
Put a stressful thought in a star and watch it disappear – an interactive 60 second meditation
The Seven Types of Rest — It’s More Than Physical and Mental
Chill, distract and relax – resources from the Gendered Intelligence COVID-19 Hub
Free weekday zoom yoga – pranayama practice by @Nats Arm
And eleven soothing podcasts to bring calm during self-isolation via The Independent
I want to laugh.
I want to listen to something.
I want to watch something.
A list of free queer films by Leeds Queer Film Festival [Google Sheets]
BFI Flare – London LGBTQ Film Festival online streaming service, free for 14 days
Pose, series on BBC iPlayer (also on Netflix, majority trans cast/characters)
First Day, series on BBC iPlayer (trans main character)
Feel Good, series on All 4 (non-binary main character, content warning for drug addiction themes)
Tales of the City, series on Netflix (majority trans characters)
Interested in films